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If you want to have an definitely go with oral. Getting one that's both would be good too (such as the rabbit or a cheaper version of it) but a oral one is easier to use during . I went through the same thing with my ex and I found that it was all about my mental attitude. Don't go into thinking it's going to be impossible or it will be. Just concentrate on how good it feels, don't worry about how you look to him and don't start feeling bad for him just because you're worried you're taking too long. Just feel it and enjoy it and you will be having s in no time!